#1 or the Only one Blog series (Are you proud to be a #?)


I know he has other women, but at least I’m #1…. Excuse me, while I throw the eff up!
You could not sound any dumber, even if you shouted it from the rooftop.
Knowing that you’re not the only one and still allowing it to go on, doesn’t make you a down ass chic. It makes you the weakest link.
It shows your lack of self-esteem and self-love.
You will not get what you want in the end. Even if you “do” it really won’t be what you wanted.
A man that loves you, has no need for others.
Allowing a man to lay with you, while he plays the field will not get you loyalty. More disrespect will follow.
Ever hear the saying “you teach people how to treat you”? I know this to be fact! People treat you the way you portray yourself.
If you’re lonely, attention starved and desperate, more than likely…you’ll easily fall for the guy who will lie constantly, cheat on and disrespect you.
Are there really perks being #1? I laugh as I write #1, this is what you have sold your soul for….the #1 spot on the list of his bitches. Freakin Hilarious!!

The only title you should be proud to claim is WIFE! The one & only….

Is that really how you want to live?
As #1, you are surly hurt the most. You are the only one who knows the truth. Boasting about a man, that dates other women is stupid. Point. Blank. Period.
If you have to compete for him….he’s not the one.
Dating a man, who is dating others is only okay, when you’re doing the same. You both are on equal playing fields. You both have options.
Ladies, the absolute wrong thing to do is to start cutting your other friends off. Until a man makes it clear that he wants to be with you and only you…..continue to date others.
xoxo ๐Ÿ’‹
Ms. Nikki Lynch


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