After we realize that we are falling for him….in that moment he realizes the same.
One of two things can happen….he either becomes closer to you or he uses your feelings for him to his advantage. If this happens, he starts to take you for granted. Not being completely honest with you or downright ignoring you.
Now this makes you feel hurt and confused as to what’s happening. Make no mistake, he knows what he’s doing.
Don’t know what to do about it?
I’ll tell you what to do…….ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!
- Phone Calls
- Drive By’s
If you mean as much to him as he means to you. He’ll be back (if you’re still interested) with a better attitude towards your relationship.
The trick to not falling to fast for a man is……NOT falling for the “potential” he “may” possess. Get to know him first. Find out what kind of man he really is.
Getting to know a person requires more than 2 weeks. A lot of the time a persons “representative” shows up. Not because they’re trying to deceive you (in most cases) but because they want to impress you. Once you get comfortable around someone, you slowly let your guard down and the real you starts to shine. That’s when you get to know the real guy behind the representative.
Now, ladies….that’s the point where you decide if he’s a keeper or not and move forward accordingly.
What are your thoughts on this?